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Either she is a working lady or a homemaker, she is always thinking something. Doesn’t matter, she is inside the lift or washroom or the bed, no rest for her brain.

According to a study conducted by Nielsen in the year 2011, it was found that Indian women were stressed most of the time.

This study was conducted among 6500 women from 21 countries. 87% of Indian women felt stressed all the time; out of which, 82% of women felt stressed due to lack of relaxation.

 I never understood my mom’s views when I was a girl. Now I am a mother and understand her situation completely. Not only her, but the problem with every lady is more or less the same.

After marriage, her status change from girl to LADY means she is having more responsibilities means more stress now. The first companion of a girl after marriage is her husband. Indian men have different definitions of wife from all over the world. For them, a working wife means one who takes care of him, working all the time, even she is inside the house or outside the house. Even though they are a performer of the year in their office still they generally avoid using their skills in household works.

So the problem with every Indian lady remains the same, which are as below-

• Always unhappy with husbands
   1. They never take an interest in cooking.
  2. Big NO for taking care of kids alone, so that you can get me time.
   3. Don’t know how to clean his useful stuff. 
  4. Best one never put things in their right place, means always create a mess. 
   5. In facts kids also do the same after watching dad’s such activities.
  6. They don’t have time to talk to their wives.
  Then the next victim is his mother(husband’s mother) because she has never taught him how to perform household works. Guys if you want a successful wife help her inside the house also.

• Where to dry clothes
  
  Either it’s a weekend or any outing is planned or a family function, ladies always keep searching for the right place to dry clothes. This problem increases in monsoon. They give their 100% to make a strategy about when where how to deal with dirty clothes. One of my aunts ( Mother’s sister)used to listen to the weather forecast for planning of when to put the washing machine on. SO MUCH STRESS. 
• Maid , all time in hit list
  
  Every time ladies meet, they ask about maids before asking about the family’s well being. No one is happy with their maids. Still, maids are the most talked about topics among ladies. Means maids are still getting more importance among ladies than the GST.
• What to cook this time?
  So from now, this problem will be treated as a National problem. It’s a joke, but every lady dealt with it like it’s a national problem. My personal experience I used to start thinking about the dinner menu from the evening tea in the office. Lots of ladies agreed that they also do the same. Again, SO MUCH STRESS.
• Babies call whenever I sit to eat something
  
  This survey is done by me among 12 ladies and 10 of them agreed that yes their babies also do potty when she starts taking dinner or lunch. This is something which can not be changed so change diapers before eating something and stay cool :).
• In-laws
  Indian in-laws are designed in such a way that they love their daughter in law only if she follows certain laws. Many of us have got a lovely family, everybody is helping in nature. The main problem arises when everybody is expecting from you at last. If they have not done you should have done that work. They can help you with breakfast, but none will ever take complete responsibility for it if you are present in the house.
• Nothing to wear
  
  Ladies are always confused about this topic even after attending functions. They have certain criteria on which a dress must be passed to get selected for the occasion.
  1. No one else has seen this before
  2. It must not be repeated for the same host again.
  3. Matching jewelry, nail-paint, and accessories must be available at that time.
  4. Most important “I must not look fat in this dress”.
  
  Ladies, you stop noticing dresses of each other and this stress will be reduced 🙂
  Isn’t it so much STRESS? This means in every situation a lady has to take responsibility.
  
  Boys don’t you think it’s your turn now to let her enjoy the relationship she is having with you. Either she is your mother, sister or a wife gives her some me-time. Share responsibilities and allow her to enjoy that moment. But take care don’t spoil her mood when she comes back after spending her me time. For example, you offered her to make breakfast and created a mess that will take more time than making breakfast. You cannot enjoy your life without her so give importance to her and make her stress free.